"And that small little table by the bed is so old and broken, just put it out with the trash." My mother-in-law instructed.
I picked up the little table for a closer look at it. It sure was a cute little thing, old and fairly well made, but not old enough looking for me to consider it a true antique. I considered bringing it back to the shop and mending its broken wings but this was late June - early July. We were still unpacking a house and I was still setting up a shop so I could get moving on the backlog of work I was facing there. I decided I could let it go.
Then Chloe, 17 years old and full of energy, grabs the table. "Oh cool grandma, what kind of table is it?"
"Its a smoking table, the little round drawer is where you were supposed to keep your wacky tabacky." (Yes my mother-in-law talks like that, she is the crowned queen of making up words.)
Chloe then looked at me and I knew the outcome before she even said a word. The table came back to the shop so she could fix it, with my help of course.
The top was pegged and nailed into place but had developed two cracks along the grain.
Instead I will simply say that I find opportunities like this to be incredibly special. I didnt take a lot of pictures because I was having too much fun being there with her, in the moment.
My children are all big readers, it was important to me that they should be. My parental strategy was simple. I never made them read a thing (with the exception of homework), and I rarely read to them. Instead I would often talk about how important I felt reading was, and I made sure they saw me doing a lot of it. As theyve grown all three have taken to books as precious things and reading as a skill to practice.
In recent years Ive taken the same approach when it comes to being "Makers." I hope that parental gambit pays off in dividends as well. Time will tell, but I love watching the story unfold.
Ratione et Passionis
Oldwolf
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